Welcome to the National Cousins Family Reunion.

" Lets Stay Together "

Hello, I’m Jelani Vanholten, National Chairman.

I’m 44 years young—a proud husband, father, actor, songwriter, Mason, and investor.

My greatest passions are my family and our community. My wife, Chei, and I are blessed to be the parents of twin sons—now 20-year-old college students—who inspire us daily and remind us why legacy truly matters.

Giving back has always been central to who I am. I founded The Carolina Kings, an AAU basketball and mentoring program dedicated to guiding and empowering young men to reach their full potential, both on and off the court.

Born and raised in New York City, I now proudly call Raleigh, North Carolina home.

As National Chairman, my goal is to bring fresh energy and vision to our organization—creating reunions and gatherings that excite, engage, and inspire our younger generations. I want them to understand the importance of staying connected, honoring our traditions, and strengthening the bonds that make us family.

Together, we move forward—united, intentional, and rooted in love.

Scholarship Fund

Supporting cousins' dreams through education.

Annual Reunion

Our last reunion was filled with laughter, stories, and new memories that brought us closer than ever.

Community Growth

We’re expanding our mentorship programs to help cousins grow personally and professionally.

Contact Us

Reach out anytime to share news, ask questions, or connect with our family community.